Wanting what you can't have,why?Armchairs psychiatrist's opinions wanted ;)?

The gr is always greener, we always want what we can't have, nice guys finish last, blah, blah. Seriously, though - if there's a down side, don't go after him. You have to look at life like this - if what you love or have isn't worth losing, you don't do anything to jeopardize that. Ever. Because once you lose, you've lost respect, love, certainty. So the question is....which door do you pick?